But just as the article said, he never delivered. Yes Pisces men and women are different mainly due to hormonal differences. My story is actually a little different but i would love some advice, im a virgo woman in a relationship with a pisces man and so it start out when i met him at a party in 2018 and his eyes dont leave me soon as i walk through the door, later on that evening we got aquatinted and i gave him my goodies a little too early but months went by and he still kept in touch then out of the blue got a girlfriend so we stopped talkin of course then almost a year late they broke up and he wanted my friendship so we ended up gettin cool again and hangin out with eachother and after a while of that December 2nd of 2020 rolls around and he decides he wants to be my boyfriend so i say yes then 3months into our relationship he decides wants to see what its like with another girl then 3short days later he apologizes and tells me it was a mistake and he wants to be with me then 2short days go by and he tells me something is missing and i tell him he can never come back now almost a week has went by and he come back saying he misses me now i dont know if im being played with or if he really does want to be with me and just is scared. He had his head in other places and breaking up is probably the best thing for you to do with him. That also means that you have Pisces somewhere in yours. Therefore, hell omit the truth of the situation so as to not rock the boat. So I would see this guy pretty often. He also asked my opinion on what to buy like couple do we prayed before we ate breakfast everything was amazing. You are an amazing woman! Hes saying that he knows it wont change and therefore why put more energy into the relationship. We even had our first night without sex which was so weird but i didnt mind he was still very affectionate and loving also we didnt because I had come of birth control coz of hormonal issues so I think thats also a reason. I don't literally mean by mistake, anyway. This is again one of the tactics your Pisces man uses to test you. But he flakes always tells me yes but never does it like taking me on dates he really doesnt initiate 4 play. No wonder so many women want to be with them because they make them feel so deeply loved and seen! He doesnt want anyone prying into his business and we all know that on social media, the second you change your relationship status, everyone is all over it asking questions. Then one day he said that he wanted to quit marching band! No more asking how was my day doing etc he was so keen and excited to learn about my life too. We both were looking and wanting the same things. I actually feel like I have found my soulmate (he also tells me the same too). We met the next day, Sunday. He told me he felt the same and things started to hit off. Im in Texas hes in Florida So we went a whole year of only virtually talking and we finally met a few months ago and became official. This side of him might not even be that conscious within him, but there seem to be some days where whatever you seem to do or say he takes so much offense to. Should I text him again? Till now we are in touch but I feel like he is afraid of commiting and not say anything. Serve It Right Back (If He's Treating You Badly) Final Thoughts Ive been trying to keep him encouraged and supportive through his situation. You need to tell him that you want him to treat you normal and take you out with him from time to time. Then we kept talking and got into more conversations. Most recently he lost a close childhood friend and his brothers one year death anniversary is coming up so I wanted to do something to get him out the house so he wouldnt be said, all week he has been short with me and not engaging with me in text which isnt like him at all.he will reply but wont engage in conversation, when I called him out he told me how much he miss me and likes me but he doesnt want to talk right now bc hes down and he doesnt want me to think hes avoiding me but him being around me right now is pointless because hes sad. Check out my books Pisces Man Secrets for more help! As a Capricorn, you should be able to provide stability and a steady ground from with to work on. Hes not likely to change upon having a baby. So hes making excuses and pushing it back to you. Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st) You were a sarcastic ass. However, he stood up a bit after to go outside and smoke (previously he did it inside with the window open), so I was like is everything ok?. i blocked him for two weeks because he was being such an ass but then missed him so i came back. He is 18 years older than me. So I just thought Im forgiving so hopefully the person he talked to he stopped. He has to choose so you can. Money shouldnt be anything between you two. Maybe months or years down the road youll bump into him or send a random text and he may reply but trust that unless hes over everything, he likely wont start anything up with you again. Hes so good at telling lies or bending the truth that hes become very comfortable with himself. I have asked him what his intentions are with me not so long ago and he said the long road were we settle down buy a house get married and have a family. Soon after, I apologized. But I am thinking of talking to other people now to keep my options open, which is hard for me today as I am loyal. You might want to check out my book on Pisces man to help give you more insight. We had been together for 7 years when he had tried to hook up with another girl, and I had gut feelings that he had tried to do it a few times before that. So 2 months back he called me trying to see me but unfortunately he got busy and had to cancel and he was apologetic about it. Also whats with the empty promises.. Maybe his not planning to take me out anywhere not even a date. He should take the time he needs or wants on days he hasnt already promised to get together with you or at least communicate with you that he has been feeling overwhelmed and needs some space to breathe. We went out and hit it off in an eventually very long date. after I got done with my views, which were all matching his. Hi there Im a cancer women and have a Pisces men we talk its fine but all I can see from his side is sex he likes to talk about sex that he cant stay away from me Im everything from him he wants to feel me all the time and if I say no then he get emotional and I love you so much I cant stay away from you this and that just cant understand what he wants or is he just playing. Then he said, Wbu, what kind of music do you like? It was weird because he never asked me a question before especially after I asked one. He also has self-esteem issues and it reflected on your relationship. Also what was with him not seeing me for 2 months that was weird too. 5. Im confused and we virgos are big worriers. Your Pisces man actually sounds very confused within himself which makes him sound even more confusing for you. His attitude is so confusing sometimes I want to break up with him but sometimes I cant. So when I got hom I called him and told him I want to explain why I wanted to leave so urgently and that I saw the name and he told me no its someone he knows a very long time and acting like she is not a big deal but because I can read him I knew he was lying. Im a Leo woman. Sometimes, a Pisces man who has broken up with you will suddenly realize what a big mistake he's made. Would he actually make it into a reality? He is a pisces man with venus in Aquarius. I ever had, it just about knocked the wind out of me., Call him on it sweetheart. Alright so I would ask him what the nature of the relationship you have together is. I wonder if this is it this time. Are Pisces men players? it hurts my heart, when he berates me about money. So I dont know what answers I want at this moment but whatever your conclusion is Ill appreciate it. You do need to keep the communication open and be sure that youre not jumping to conclusions or doubting him when he tells you that hes alright and you should stay calm. I would just start doing your own thing and not acting like this is something. We started listening to music and reading some things of common interest. Roll with it Brittany! Dont sell yourself short. And said basically he was done. Then he told all of the other trumpets that it was that day. Thank you for chiming in Ivania! Youll have to take a different approach to how you talk to him. Then we stopped texting for a while. I dont get it. However, he needs to learn that his sensitivity and emotions are his own responsibility and he needs to figure out how to cope with these feelings productively. Hes a lover and a dreamer. Pisces men value love and connection, so if they are leaving, something has either gone awry or they just powerfully feel like swimming . He told me he likes my driving and Im better at driving then any of his ex girlfriends. He has to first grow up nd accept responsibility before he forms a family. The 11th grader looked at me and said, wait you like kohen? Hello. Hi, my name is Nevada (not my real name, but lets go with it). He does have alot of luxurious cars by the way maybe 10. I couldnt contact him on the weekends too and being busy was always be his reason. Things went really up and down but it was because I was high and Im terrified of talking about my feelings, and the fact hes not a good texter made me anxious. When you do; youll realize that though hes a smooth talker; hes fallible and you can calculate if Pisces man playing mind games is happening or not. Yes, Gemini moon can make him two faced. Being a Scorpio, things are easier and faster to determine, either I like the guy or I dont, I use logic to analyze myself in the case I start idealizing some past relationship and can see the truth for what it is. He didnt like the constant questioning because he messaged me back one day, saying that I required a lot of validation and that we were not a good fit. If you need more tips, check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets! He would not reply to some of my texts; he would ignore me when he saw me at the gym, he would say that he might be able to hang out, then cancel on me last minute, etc. Your Taurean pride may lose him though. Since you are an Aquarius, you want the truth so go ahead and ask him for it. But he still lets me know things at the last minute. Am I fool to keep chasing and wanting to be with him, oh and FYI there is a 15 year difference between us, but that does not seem to matter to either of us. I stay the night every night I dont have my son. So how to know if a Pisces man is playing you? And as many people may think that he might be using me to get a visa here. Hopefully hell agree and then youll be able to work through it. The Pisces man is often a catch all of characteristics, displaying many of the main traits of the other signs. Tuesday, were talking during his lunch break and A sexual topic starts an argument. Oh and Im an aquarius lady. Maybe with time that will change but right now youve got to accept just the friendship hes leaving open and try to focus on you. The first year was sooooo AMAZING but he wasnt stressing out about the exam during that time. If youre reading this and thinking of getting involved with a Pisces man, make sure that you give him time to really think if he wants to commit to you. This makes him incredibly insecure enough to play the jealousy card on you. Libra men will show you they want to get back together by reminding you how amazing you truly are. If he is being flaky with you then youve got to say something to him about it. Maybe he is afraid to commit but until he figures himself out, hes not going to take a leap into a relationship. One of the signs, when a Pisces man is done with you, is that he will go silent, wont return your calls or texts, and basically, you wont be able to get a hold of him. I have apologised quite a few times when I know it is my fault. Sunday came he went to church and coming back he told me he needs to complete his studies. Not all Pisces men are like this especially when they are ready to be with someone in a relationship. Give him time but tell him that you two really need to talk face to face (in person or video chat) so that you can hash it out. I think what hes told you is a lame excuse when it comes to you looking younger. You may see this as him being a player, but remember, if the two of you havent spoken about being exclusive, then it doesnt really count. I loved his cheeky approach and enjoyed chatting to him and it escalated quickly as he was saying all the right things. He promised me more time and more dates and although his off season just started I dont wanna stick around and wait to see if these things will happen because I just feel like his intentions are good but his execution isnt especially since he told me he never really had a real relationship because women doesnt understand he doesnt have regular people time because of what he does so he doesnt know how ti prioritize good. Ti be honest with you Im uncertain and scared of the future. Ouch yes pain can make you say and do horrible things. Anyway he also used to mention how much he will be taking care of me and buying me a car but all of a sudden doesnt say it but talks about the future and all of a sudden wants to hear about my problems. Read up more on Pisces guys in my book Pisces Man Secrets. Sometimes when a Pisces man is with someone, he wants to keep them all to himself which is why he wouldnt want to take you out. He never responded that day. honestly i saw this coming but at the same time he was asking me a lot of questions about me and was staring into my soul. But I feel like he thinks he has me so he doesnt have to do all the things he did in the beginning. He also tells me he loves me a lot. He is a athlete and travels allot and barely has time but he does try to make time for me and show me that he misses me or wants to see me, but then he can be flakey because hes so busy and barely has time that he tries to over extend himself which drives me crazy. If not then hes being selfish and taking time to himself after he promised it to you. How To Make a Ghoster Regret 1. Am cancer bornjl July.Am married with him now 14years still counting by his grace.But my fear is he traveled out of the country but he do send us money for our upkeep, when he got there newly he do send text messages, video call,chart and show much love but i noticed after 1plus he got there are little changes in him dat is hardly for him to chart wt m or drop message or even speak with the kids but i wl always be d one to do dat first before he could reply m.But later i found he has gotten someone but i asked him about it.But he tried to denied it.But still sending us money for our upkeep but no attention like before but keep telling m his busy.Then i try to discuss this with him,dat is like his trying to avoid m for another woman and till 4days now he busy his line when ever i call him.I later went to try him in another line but pick up when he heard my voice he told m is not ready to speak with me and he hang up the call.Since then he didnt call but i drop a apology messages for him still not reply till today.Am really depressed ???? Crying burns calories that this person is not even worth you burning. Hi there, so here is my situation. He shouldnt be worried about what other people think otherwise why is he with you? I need some help. I was shocked to receive, a message from this man out of nowhere. Even when he is traveling he will call and text me all the time but lol where is my invite??. You need to figure out if you have a chance at a future with him or not. Life is too short for that. He could be seeing other people and breaking plans with you to go see them. When they ghost you and come back, read their message carefully. He won't leave. We talked kissed cuddled and he performed oral sex on me. But he might not be doing this intentionally at all! As of right now we are awaiting his approval for the university he applied to. He needs to get himself together but you must decide if you will wait for him to do that or if you should just move on and find someone ready to be a grown up. I get being busy at work but I know damn well you can throw a text. I backed of as did he, then one night he wants to come home with me, although I tried to discourage him, I cant lie I wanted him. The second seven signs are the indicators that he's gone for good. So said I said youre the one who said youll text you in the morning. He never responded after that. You should either reach out to him and tell him you like him or you should just walk away. Be very careful. Tell me how he did it, Id love to know! Plus, if you are forthright with him, you'll know you did your best and were honest about everything. Then again if hes lonely enough, he may play with you a bit to make himself feel good again. I love him so much. Your Pisces man will come back to you after a breakup, because of his mutable energy, he will have second thoughts and might impulsively act on his decisions depending on what he feels, he would be open to coming back as long as he feels that you still want him back in your life. I dont understand why his acting weird and ignoring me. Met a I find out from Facebook it was his ex he was helping out. We had made an agreement to see each other the next day, which was Monday. Then he said, I kept meaning to tell you but I forgot. Then we talked some more and the conversation ended about 30 minutes later. Eye and body shifts, while hes telling you what he was doing or what hes going to do, will reveal to you if hes being honest or if hes playing you. Why break it all up by telling him he needs to give it a title. Pisces may have a solution in their head to the issue that you may not agree with. However, Pisces are usually dating 8,000 people at once, so if you ghost. So your ghoster might have acted selfishly but then realized their mistake and are feeling guilty for hurting you. PISCES. Hell freak out and hardly ever want to be around to be responsible. I told my friend Evan and he said that kohen probably hates me now. He will make plans and sometimes sleep through the plans and when I call him out on it or try to cut things off he apologizes and trys to say that no one understand the things he has to do and sorry for pushing you away, and that I never had to open up to anyone so it hard and he tend to push people away. Its important you know all his maneuvers to find out if the Pisces man playing games is something that is happening to you in your life. This year is so sad for me and I just want to know how to talk to him and make him understand that we have kids involve and I need to see my kids and talk to them. So I think 3 weeks passed and I started talking to him again. So last week he finally texted me and we made plans to see on another. He has a habit of saying hes gonna come see me and doesnt and I dont know what to make of it. That part will be up to you sweetheart. Then we went to his home we made out and I gave him a hand job after that he was completely emotionally detached like I felt it very powerfully. We dont talk as often as we did in the beginning but we do talk. Recently hes feeling not himself and feeling that something is off and suddenly thinks we should be friends and that he needed space and will reach out when ready. We go fishing all the time. So he explained he was going through something financial and that he wasnt sure if Id want to be with him during that state which is weird coz I dont mind, I just want him close to me. I declined because my schedule would not permit but would f/u with him tomorrow with a date. He moved away to a different state this month, and just recently, he offered to let me stay at his apartment when I visited, but after I told him the dates, he said hed let me know that day and never got back to me. Listen to your gut. I dont get it. Its absolutely necessary to see him on camera or in person because there are definitely a whole lot of fakes on P.O.F. He would always put the time and effort to drive 3 hours to come see me 4 times a week. Every person is different and that remains true for Pisces as well. It sounds as though youre figured out the truth behind the Pisces man. Remember your self-respect is more important than getting his approval. Until that happens, dont focus on him. Give him a chance to explain. Of course you should also always trust your own feel on it too. I really want to keep in contact with you, but if you dont want to accept a friendship for now and it will make things difficult I will also understand. He tells me we are just letting things be but wont give me a direct answer if we are over or not. I have worked tirelessly to figure out a way to fix all relationships with Pisces men. Yikes! I have secretly had a bit of a crush on him for a while. I am calling upon my Taurean stubborness to not reach out to him via email (he doesnt block me there so there is always a door open). Eventually he had to go back home after spending 1 day together Before saying goodbye, he said that he felt some pressure with me, that he wouldnt like me to jump to conclusions and why should we put a label on that? (me asking him why he went outside to smoke, or when i mentioned in one of our discussions that we just started dating I said it in the sense of meeting up to get to know each other). I didnt know how to feel. How could things go from amazing to almost non-existent so quickly? Thank you. But your Pisces man can be all the best things you want in a man if you handle him with care and love. Again, this is something you have to learn so that you arent a victim to his games. He also asked my roomate if we were having sex, but my roomate is just a close friend. He told me he would pay me back, I was in such an emotional uphevel, I did not do it and backed out. After a while and some weeks passed, I started to get this weird nervous feeling in me every time I walked by or was in the same room as Kohen. So my Pisces guy and I have been together 4 years he has done a lot of shitty things like leaves and doesnt message me to tell me where hes going and at times gets drunk and stays out very late without me knowing where he is. Don't cry. I have never asked him for money and asking him for money for birth control has always happened and his always sent it and weve discussed it so its not unusual. But unless they broke their thumbs, chances. If he cannot answer its because hes not sure. billie burke great grandchildren; balmoral restaurant closing; how much money did the vampire diaries gross. We finally hung out in July, but after that day, things seemed strange. Pisces are sensitive men and need a woman to be soft with him. So he explained he was going through something financial and that he wasnt sure if Id want to be with him during that state which is weird coz I dont mind, I just want him close to me. Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (dont worry, its anonymous). Later that night he called teice but I was asleep. Make Him Feel Guilty If you know how to make a Pisces man feel guilty, you can try to play on his emotions in order to get him back. Be loyal to him. But social media isn't the only sign that a ghoster might be planning their grand return. Although I thought that was kind quick I said yes! He says he has much love for me and will always be there for me. Its weird. Treat others (even your ghosting ex) with kindness if you want to be treated kindly. We even had our first night without sex which was so weird but i didnt mind he was still very affectionate and loving also we didnt because I had come of birth control coz of hormonal issues so I think thats also a reason. He also hates his mother working at the bakery they own. It will seem as though he never existed except your heart will feel the sadness. We met on a Sunday night. He should just let you go if thats what his intention is, but Pisces is always looking for his true soul mate and until he finds her. From the beginning we had a great Connection. 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