Leighane Melsadie Redmond had been taken to court over unpaid bills, the inquest at Beaconsfield Coroners Court heard today (November 15). With a train you just stand on the platform and make that sudden, crucial decision to step or jump forward without anyone having the chance to stop you (unless you WANT to be stopped). She had to have felt some pain there. Registered in England & Wales | 01676637 |. Call the Samaritans on 116 123 or email them atjo@samaritans.org. The inquest heard Ms Redmond had a bill to her electricity supplier of 334 outstanding, a bill to her gas supplier of 638 and she was in rent arrears of 1499.37. I did not say her actions are good and i do sympathise with others effected by her actions.If anyone critcises are suggest she should have done something else, stop now. British Transport Police had declared the deaths a suspicious incident and an investigation was launched by their Major Crime team. 'We were aware that pregnancy was a difficult time for her in terms of her mental health. While this might sound callous, the Narita Express (airport-bound ones anyway) is the worst train to jump in front of as far as ruining other people's days- I wonder how many people missed their flights because of this? Parents as well as educational institutions have a responsibility for the wellfare of their youth, not just their grades. What annoys me that this government ignores this problem like so many others, bullying, shody reactors and so on. 13, 2011 - 05:52PM JST EXCLUSIVE: Lanzarote sticks to its guns and insists it WILL limit tourists and move away from relying on Nearly half of British viewers believe ethnic minorities and LGBT communities are over-represented on TV, Is YOUR wood burner at risk? No one as far as I can see is accusing suicides in general or this woman in particular of being malevolent. 'Is it right that the outcome of that was she had an arrangement whereby she would be able to repay it down by monthly 143 contributions?'. And even in death she's seen as a big fail by some here. But what she did was still selfish in the end, and many others are paying for and WILL pay for it. At 3:17 p.m., at the Broadway and West 96th Street subway station, an unidentified woman jumped in front of a southbound 3 train in an apparent suicide, an NYPD spokesperson told WSR. And if you want to do something to help someone before they get in this desperate position, a little bit of kindness and understanding really helps. She may simply have chosen this route because of her belief that it would both end her suffering and take the burden of supporting her away from society and/or whatever family she had. I don't care what people say about Trains its a very painfull way especially if you survive. For confidential support call the Samaritans in the UK on 08457 90 90 90, visit a local Samaritans branch or click here for details. Very useful skills indeed! She was behind on her rent, etcetera. I even came close once, and I probably would not be sitting here typing this if not for intervention. EXCLUSIVE - Revealed: Carol Kirkwood's secret toyboy fianc - 13 years her junior - is a divorced police 'Digital antidepressants' to be rolled out on the NHS as health bosses give eight apps and web-based therapy Do not sell or share my personal information. A mother who was behind on her rent and bills cradled her three-year-old daughter in her arms and jumped" on to train tracks, where they were both killed, an inquest has heard. I don't know the severity of that woman'situation, so I can't say what pushed her over the edge, but I doubt she had any people she could be open with or even had a shoulder to lean on. Describing the footage, Mr Wade said: 'She takes Melsadies hand and walks relatively slowly. She needed help, and should have had easy access to it -- no one debates that. Sorry to sound flippant, but every life lost is (often) another 3,4,5 scarred. Police are currently trying to identify the deceased. She later made a number of phone calls, including one to her prospective employer and another fairly lengthy call with her landlord, Hightown Housing Association. (Just read today's article about women running into problems with loan companies. Nevertheless, that doesn't excuse the fact that Japan is in dire need of social support services, anywhere from distress centers for abused women or victims of rape to trauma counselling and psychiatric treatment. July 13, 2011 05:00 pm JST. What is wrong wih you people, did you grow up in the 19th century? Whatever the reason, it is clearly a very selfish act indeed. By I think it is wrong and low class to criticise someone who found that this was the best thing for them. Mother cradled baby daughter and 'carefully jumped' in front of train, inquest hears. According to investigators, her body was hit by the front car and then propelled five meters, through the glass door of a station shop that was situated on the platform. I find it hard to believe no one witnessed it, as even the train conductor or people looking out from the front of the train would have seen the impact. Going to the top of the building could set off certain alarm bells, so to speak, and someone might notify the authorities or someone else and the person might be talked down. Not one of you seem to consider that maybe this woman had fallen into depression due to the current situation caused by TEPCO or the Earthquake / Tsunami. It was found later from other CCTV camera rec. As for the deceased person, as we do not know anything about her, it is a little early to judge her motives. It's too bad someone chose to end their life in such a way to so traumatize others. Did she intend to hurt 4 other people in her attempt to destroy herself? 'It made me late for work' -type posts - Yes indeed. Zdenka kept her third pregnancy a secret from her husband for five months, the coroner heard. Ms Redmond eventually came to a platform which was cordoned off to the public. Jeremy Clarkson is axed as Who Wants To Be A Millionaire? The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. It's a cultural flaw. To request removal of your name from an arrest report, submit these required items to arrestreports@patch.com. Sign up for free Patch newsletters and alerts. Everyone could feel and understand each other as much as they understand themselves and events like this would probably cease to exist. 'Usually when she had an episode, the signs were lack of sleep, lack of appetite and being angry but she was normal before and after the incident,' husband Jude said at the inquest into her death on Thursday. DS Rees agreed that Melsadie was 'behaving well' and did not 'appear to be demanding' until the mother and daughter were seen leaving the station. We talked to BestReviews nutrition expert, Molly Bremer, about her favorite whole grains and how to use them. Detective Sergeant Simon Rees told the inquest that a financial investigator had examined Ms Redmonds circumstances prior to her death. That's truly sad. I was going to call the mental health service team but she said she did not want them to visit, she said they interfered with her marriage and her pregnancy,' he said. Mr Hector Bradley . Prince Harry boasts about finding 'freedom and happiness' and jokes about reincarnation in unseen TV Behind-the-scenes at fashion week with the Spencers! Felicia Garcia, 15, was reportedly tormented by her peers at Tottenville High School, who teased her about sexual encounters with football players, police sources told the New York Daily News. ', 'I did not think she was suffering a relapse at the time although it did not occur to me. is rational - at least for now! This is amazing!! Obviously the woman had problems, but if she left a family behind not only will she have shocked them deeply by killing herself, but she might be making them lose a lot more than that as well. And quite frankly, here in Japan I have no idea at all how you would go about it. This woman was obviously highly coordinated, had excellent timing and gymnastics ability. Yoko Ono Is Leaving The UWS And The Dakota For An Upstate Farm, Multiple UWS Subway Stations Will Get Accessibility Upgrades: MTA, Warby Parker Will Open 2nd Upper West Side Location This Weekend, Book Talk: Hostile Homelands w/Azad Essa and Linah Alsaafin, Talk: The Industrialization of Sexual Exploitation OR Why 'Sex Work' is NOT 'Agency' But Degradation, David Burke Goes Down Under with Five-Course Penfolds Wine Dinner, An Evening with the Indiana University Singing Hoosiers, The Walther Christian Academy Choir Performs a Lunchtime Concert. We know her well enough to know she ended her life in the most selfish way possible - by traumatizing many people forced to witness her death, not to mention those injured. How is this not a fundamentally very selfish act? A suicide note has also been recovered by the police. The Government try to hire more psychologists, but they are never enough; they address the symptoms, but eventually miss the root cause of the problem. A smile or even some expressed concern, verbal or not, can go a long ways to helping ease someone's state of mind and break down barriers; at the very least, it will provide a brief reprieve for a troubled soul. The main thing is mental ilnnes should be seen and treated as any other illness. It is thinking like that that results in Japan having such a pathetic mental health system, and mental illness still having such a stigma here. Subsequently, a train slows to a halt on the tracks. She had jumped in front of the train with her . I will never regret having her in my life.'. Have it government regulated? There is something seriously wrong with a lot of peoples thinking here and i think you need to add a bit of humanity and empathy to your souls. I ahve seen this happen to someone, leading up to their death i got hurt so did many others. I personally think the whole 'ganbare' and 'I must not make a scene' are partially to blame. Mabye we shoudl point our fingers at that rather tahn the victim. People who commit suicide are selfish and in this case she even hurt innocent bystanders. 'I noticed a woman in a white jacket back away and start running across the platform.'. I would liek to see an awareness programme for people to understand mental illnes, depression and suicide better. On the day she had received news that some of her debt burdens had been relieved, if she had entered into a payment agreement which she did, and she was supposed to have started a new employment so her financial situation was potentially going to change.. The court heard how the pair were tragically killed after being struck by a train having been on a platform that was closed to the publicfor around six minutes beforehand. Leighane Melsadie Redmond had been taken to court over unpaid bills, the inquest at Beaconsfield Coroners Court heard today (November 15). We should sop thinking so much about ourselves, ok we are late for work, but a fellow human has died, their shoudl be pity for the deceased and their family not bitterness and anger.Humanity needs a lot of improvement. They lose their self esteem completely and compound with bad the economy, two-thirds of the people in Japan has money worries and they are feeling helpless. I think it is wrong and low class to criticise someone who found that this was the best thing for them. Another deluded individual. I doubt she thought that she would harm anybody else in the process, and it's wrong to assume she wanted to. And the number is increasing - the year before was around 30.000. The reason is that it was an express train -good chance of succeeding. More like a temporary solution to a permanent problem steve@CPFC - "Compassion is free" and wasted on the feeble minded. If anything, Government action should be to reach out to the weak to remind them they are loved. Try thinking how damaged the person is to consider ending their life, not an easy thing to do. Taking Vitamin D each day could cut your chances of getting dementia, study claims. Key Highlights. I have been late 3 times this month because someone thought to throw themselves in front of a train! So please don't accuse me of not understanding, I understand it all far too well. to seek help? Another example of what happens when emotions are pent up through the pressure of life in Japan. And then, once they are gone, the constant wondering of "Could I have done more?" At 6.30am, at which time Melsadie was with her father Leroy Parris, Ms Redmond had checked her bank balance at a garage. If she were aware enough of her surroundings and were able to fully assess her situation, she likely wouldn't have jumped in the first place. Another sad and quiet tragedy unfolds. Suicide is complex, but without a doubt, there needs to be FAR more done here for mental illness. If you must kill yourself, put your affairs in order first and choose a method that doesn't leave a gory mess. the person was sick of mind. Whenever something like this happens, there's someone whose job it is to clean up the mess. There are many selfish ways of committing suicide which involve pain or difficulty or 'meiwaku' for others (actually the English contains a nuance not in Japanese, ie of committing a crime, so perhaps 'ending your own life' might be a better way to phrase it than 'committing suicide'). A woman died after jumping in front of a Brooklyn-bound L train Friday night. Then again, she may not have been depressed at all. Why, no, of course I'm not being sarcastic! Awareness of the effects of one's actions on others yet choosing in one's own favor is a requisite of selfishness, and this woman, in all likelyhood, wasn't. If you think you're experiencing a human rights issue, talk to us in your language. The inquest continues. The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. why?". In the incident caught on CCTV, a policeman jumps after the woman to rescue her. When you are in a state of mind that jumping in front of a train is the best solution to your problems, you are in a very dark place indeed, and rational thought would be a struggle I'm guessing. With 35.000 suicides per year, it is not the lady who had a problem, but the society which is inducing people to suicide. Add Your Voice to CantaNYC, a Community Chorus! They charge millions of yen for stoppages, extra work, etc
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